Women Rowing North
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Women Rowing North

Transition is simply the path between possibilities. I’m swimming now in the middle of some minor transitions. This is good because while I’m midstream, I get a better view of the shore.

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The Sweetness of Doing Nothing
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The Sweetness of Doing Nothing

On Friday, if you had peeked into my life, you would have found me curled up in bed, with my book, and my dog, and the fan blowing cool air. At what time you ask? Well, pretty much all day!

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A Personal Manifesto
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A Personal Manifesto

I have spent most of this first week of September sitting at my desk. I am delving into new projects, cleaning up files, and replenishing office supplies – indulging in my favourite Pilot fineliner pens and bright, coloured Post-its.

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The Days Become Shorter
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The Days Become Shorter

Today is the last day of our island holiday. I was going to give myself a reprieve from writing a blog post this week but sitting here with my morning coffee, reluctant to start cleaning and packing, I find myself scribbling a few lines…

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Writing Our Life Stories
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Writing Our Life Stories

At the age of 10, I knew I was fat – not that anyone in my family was actually rude enough to say so – no, insinuations were enough.

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Pandemic Ponderings
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Pandemic Ponderings

Eight months and thirty-two blog posts ago when I began Ageless Possibilities, I shared my first three blog posts with a few trusted friends for their honest feedback.

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Seeking Solace
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Seeking Solace

The chanting floats into the room, softly building momentum, and then soars upwards to the vaulted roof. The voices catch in the ceiling fan and drift out to the deck, where they are carried on a breeze towards where I sit by the pond.

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The Songs of Childhood
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The Songs of Childhood

This morning I woke up in the spare room, the room that faces east. I was restless last night, my hips and legs were aching and I was worried that I was keeping my husband awake.

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Navigating Ambiguous Loss
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Navigating Ambiguous Loss

Ambiguous loss makes us feel incompetent. It erodes our sense of mastery and destroys our belief in the world as a fair, orderly, and manageable place.

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Embracing Wholeness
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Embracing Wholeness

Welcome to the brink of everything. It takes a lifetime to get here, but the stunning view of past, present, and future—and the bracing breeze in your face—make it worth the trip.

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The Best Laid Plans
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The Best Laid Plans

I am a planner. Give me a project or an event and I will make lists, create action plans, and develop outcomes. I will stay on schedule…

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Swedish Death Cleaning
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Swedish Death Cleaning

Those of you who follow my Facebook page will know that I have been on the island for the past month preparing my mother for her move into seniors housing. What a whirlwind it has been!

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The Truth of Her Face
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The Truth of Her Face

On my morning walks with Tucker, on the road behind my home, I regularly encounter a woman who I assume must live close by….

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Trusting In What We Know
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Trusting In What We Know

She was surprised at how the simplest of facts are overlooked by the people that need them the most and yet obvious to someone outside the situation.

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The Quality of the Remaining Light
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The Quality of the Remaining Light

Photographers call it ‘the sweet hour’ because of the quality of the light. That’s how I’ve come to think of this stage of life: bittersweet and beautiful because of the quality of the remaining light.”

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The Long Reach of Body Shame
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The Long Reach of Body Shame

At the age of 10, I knew I was fat – not that anyone in my family was actually rude enough to say so – no, insinuations were enough. Food rules dominated my childhood years.

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Fifty Shades of Grey
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Fifty Shades of Grey

The first time I thought about the colour of depression was while watching an episode of Fame, when I was in my mid-20s. Remember that show, the drama – and beautiful performances - of students attending a performing arts high school in New York?

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Turn Up the Volume
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Turn Up the Volume

“My outer world has become very, very quiet but my inner world currently has the volume turned up all the way.” I came across this quote on Instagram almost a month ago. The quote has been living in my conscience since…

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Places That Live On In My Memory
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Places That Live On In My Memory

Facebook reminds me that every year at the beginning of May, I have been traveling. This year would have been no exception.

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