Embracing Wholeness
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Embracing Wholeness

Welcome to the brink of everything. It takes a lifetime to get here, but the stunning view of past, present, and future—and the bracing breeze in your face—make it worth the trip.

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The Best Laid Plans
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The Best Laid Plans

I am a planner. Give me a project or an event and I will make lists, create action plans, and develop outcomes. I will stay on schedule…

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Swedish Death Cleaning
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Swedish Death Cleaning

Those of you who follow my Facebook page will know that I have been on the island for the past month preparing my mother for her move into seniors housing. What a whirlwind it has been!

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The Truth of Her Face
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The Truth of Her Face

On my morning walks with Tucker, on the road behind my home, I regularly encounter a woman who I assume must live close by….

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Trusting In What We Know
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Trusting In What We Know

She was surprised at how the simplest of facts are overlooked by the people that need them the most and yet obvious to someone outside the situation.

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The Quality of the Remaining Light
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The Quality of the Remaining Light

Photographers call it ‘the sweet hour’ because of the quality of the light. That’s how I’ve come to think of this stage of life: bittersweet and beautiful because of the quality of the remaining light.”

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The Long Reach of Body Shame
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The Long Reach of Body Shame

At the age of 10, I knew I was fat – not that anyone in my family was actually rude enough to say so – no, insinuations were enough. Food rules dominated my childhood years.

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Fifty Shades of Grey
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Fifty Shades of Grey

The first time I thought about the colour of depression was while watching an episode of Fame, when I was in my mid-20s. Remember that show, the drama – and beautiful performances - of students attending a performing arts high school in New York?

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Turn Up the Volume
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Turn Up the Volume

“My outer world has become very, very quiet but my inner world currently has the volume turned up all the way.” I came across this quote on Instagram almost a month ago. The quote has been living in my conscience since…

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Places That Live On In My Memory
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Places That Live On In My Memory

Facebook reminds me that every year at the beginning of May, I have been traveling. This year would have been no exception.

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The Stories in My Head
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The Stories in My Head

I spend a lot of my time living in my head. Sometimes I do this in silence, other times I speak aloud – in the shower, out walking or just during regular day-to-day activities. Speaking to myself has become a habit, a part of who I am.

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Moments of Joy I
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Moments of Joy I

I am so unfocused these days. Maybe you are too? I expect it is from the uncertainty that awaits us every morning when we wake up.

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Now I Become Myself
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Now I Become Myself

Two weeks ago, the headline in the news was, “Four more deaths, all elderly.” One of those who had died was…

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What is a Good Life?
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What is a Good Life?

I spent most of yesterday cleaning the backyard. I pulled weeds, gently removed dried leaves from new growth and scrubbed the patio and garden furniture.

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Calamity is a Great Teacher
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Calamity is a Great Teacher

My friend Jenny emailed me this quote, “Calamity is a great teacher”. She knows how much I appreciate a great quote to start off a piece of writing.

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The Comfort of My Husband's Arms
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The Comfort of My Husband's Arms

The alarm clock goes off at 6 am every morning. My husband turns it off, then rolls over and curves his body around mine.

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Being Alive in a Broken World
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Being Alive in a Broken World

“Enough with all your spiritual platitudes”, I read on Instagram, “if you knew how difficult our lives were right now you would realize that your posts are causing me pain and anger rather than giving me relief and support”.

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Holding Space for Each Other
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Holding Space for Each Other

Imagine, you are struggling with depression and you have a friend who comes over every day and all he does is sit in silence with you and massages your feet.

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My Wise Old Man
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My Wise Old Man

Tucker is recovering from surgery. The vet removed a cancerous tumor that had appeared quite suddenly on his back leg, scraping deep and wide to excise all the cancer cells.

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