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Fine-tuning the life you planned
What happens when the life you planned no longer quite fits? Here are three activities to help shape your next chapter - individually and as a couple.
A new seasonal rhythm
This week, I realized that the seasons of our lives can change in unexpected ways. As August draws to a close, I’m discovering a new seasonal rhythm, one that makes room for rest and reflection in summer and brings me back to myself as fall approaches.
The book hangover
Some books end, but the women we meet in them stay with us. I have just finished one of those books and I am not ready to say goodbye.
Out of the mouths of babes
Being an omi is about listening, laughing, answering impossible questions, and seeing the world through young eyes again.
The dust has settled
Aging has changed the way I approach relationships.
In defence of the crazy old bird lady
When I retired, I received several suggestions that I might want to take up birding. Some insinuated I might become a crazy old bird lady, knowing how much I already enjoyed birds.
The wisdom in the margins
Discover the books that are recommended when women gather to write life stories and reflect on aging, memories, and the journey rowing north.
Revealing photographs
The other day, I caught a glimpse of my husband's new screensaver and immediately cringed. It was a photo of me that I would never have chosen.
Marital muscle memory
A sigh, a glance, a cup of coffee delivered just the way you like it. Forty years together have created a lifetime of marital muscle memory.
A day measured in questions
Most days, curiosity accompanies my daily routine. The older I get, the more my days are punctuated not by answers, but by questions.
The gifts of solitude
My husband reminds me he will be heading off for four days next week. I feel a shiver of anticipation. How could I forget that I was about to have four days of solitude?
A peek into the future
Would my journey through life have changed if I could have peeked into the future? Would I have been less worried? Would I have taken more risks?
A blind lust for the written word
A reflective look at a lifelong love of books—how reading sparks creativity, evokes memories, and inspires women to reconnect with themselves at any age.
When creativity grows quiet
What does it feel like when your creativity goes quiet - not because you’re blocked or tired, but because something deeper is going on? With simple, gentle ideas, learn ways to slowly reconnect with your creativity.
50 reflections on growing older
Life is full of moments that shape us. As I reflect on 250 blog posts, I wanted to pause and share 50 personal reflections on life, relationships, writing, and growing older.
The child of my child
There’s a kind of love you don’t fully understand until you become a grandmother…
The calm in the storm
We all need a reminder that compassion, community, and quiet resilience can help carry us through uncertain times. I found a small pocket of calm in an unexpected place.
Learning to winter
Snow falling.
Coffee warming my hands.
Creativity in the dark morning light.
This is how I winter now.
Sixty to sixty-seven. What’s changed?
Are older women better at living in the present?
Research suggests older women may live more in the present. A personal exploration of aging, presence, and experience.