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Pausing at the Threshold
I am standing on a major threshold, unable to step over, held captive by fear, hope, opportunities, and excitement. This is the next stage of my life, the last stage of life. I may have another 30 years ahead of me - a lifetime!…

Different But The Same
Do you still enjoy the same pastimes as those that filled you with joy when you were younger? I do. Now that I have the time

Nine Myths About Grief
A tight community of family and friends was there to support me after my mother died. They listened and held space for me in my grief. I also received well-meaning comments from my broader circle, but sometimes these words fell flat on my sorrow.

Do You Still Daydream?
I can be standing in the shower, sitting at my desk, staring at my garden, or lying awake in bed when my mind wanders…

My Drawer of Unfinished Projects
The third drawer of my antique dresser houses my unfinished projects; some have lain tucked away for over twenty-five years…

Moments of Joy III
These days, I experience moments of joy daily, even when I am lost in grief or despair. Some of you keep gratitude journals; I have often think about keeping a joy journal…

Regrets, I've Had A Few...
What comes to mind when you think of regrets, remorse, or guilt you are still carrying? What are you doing to ensure that you don’t become a woman who has regrets?

Heart Dropping Moments This Week
Throw an emergency my way, and I can assure you that you can count on me to remain calm and logical. However, a series of heart-dropping events?…

All Mothers Need Support
My oldest daughter and her family are moving to Vancouver Island this week. My 4-month old granddaughter will only be a Zoom visit away. But to actually snuggle her…

Four Northern Lights For Older Women
A friend asked me last week if people are treating me differently now that I am older. Yes, I responded, sometimes I feel like I am fading…

Song is Everywhere
On Tuesday night, I stood on our island deck in complete darkness. I knew there was a sliver of moon behind the trees, and the sky was full of shimmering stars, yet I could not even make out the shape of the pond beyond the field…

Family Treasures
I thought I'd skim through my copy of Wind of the Willows. I couldn't find it. I did, however, find a used copy online. There was only one little problem. It was $11,000!

Celebrating 100 Blog Posts
Last week I shared my 100th blog with you! How do I celebrate this accomplishment? Well, I thought I would share 100 random things with you. Quotes, lessons…

The Spider in the Bathroom
We have not been to our island home for several months. Hesitantly, we open the front door. We are both feeling a bit of anxiety. Has a pipe burst during the cold spell? Has someone broken in through the sliding door?…

The Ones Who Stand Behind You
Ancestral math tells us that in order for you to be born today from 12 previous generations, you needed almost 4100 ancestors over the past 400 years to come before you. Consider the span of history of your people for a moment...

Three Soul Journeys for Older Women
I was rowing along, dipping my paddle into calm waters, when I encountered a strong undercurrent and decided to pull my canoe up on the riverbank…

The Power of Her Glare
The photo has haunted me since I saw it on Monday. A photograph of the raw, brutal glare…

This Body of Mine
My daughter had a baby seven weeks ago. She says she can feel her organs shifting back into place. I look at her with disbelief. How do you know that I ask her?…

Time Slows Down
I look at time as no more than an idea, and I consider eternity as another possibility…

The Wisdom in Fiction
I think that when people read fiction, they're really reading for wisdom. I am. That's what most of us really love…