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Ageless Friendships
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Ageless Friendships

My youngest friend is 51 years old, and my oldest friend is 78. I fall somewhere in the middle, at 63. My longest friendship started in grade three…

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You Look Good For Your Age
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You Look Good For Your Age

Old age is not a disease. It is not a pathology. It is not abnormal. It is not a problem. Old age is a continuum, and everyone is on it…

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Breathless With Wonder
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Breathless With Wonder

Do you walk through life with a sense of wonder? Has age impeded or assisted your sense of wonder? How has the location of awe changed for you over time? Has it shifted from the stars to the woods?

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Now I Become Myself
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Now I Become Myself

I woke up this morning to a Facebook memory from 2012, ten years ago. I am standing by the River Kwai in Kanchanaburi, the last stop on my solo adventure to Thailand. Look at that smile on my face!…

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Paddling in the Dark
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Paddling in the Dark

I often mention this journey we are on, paddling north - hitting rough waters, checking out tributaries, or moving forward with determined strokes. I had never given any thought to paddling in the dark…

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Pausing at the Threshold
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Pausing at the Threshold

I am standing on a major threshold, unable to step over, held captive by fear, hope, opportunities, and excitement. This is the next stage of my life, the last stage of life. I may have another 30 years ahead of me - a lifetime!…

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Different But The Same
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Different But The Same

Do you still enjoy the same pastimes as those that filled you with joy when you were younger? I do. Now that I have the time

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Nine Myths About Grief
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Nine Myths About Grief

A tight community of family and friends was there to support me after my mother died. They listened and held space for me in my grief. I also received well-meaning comments from my broader circle, but sometimes these words fell flat on my sorrow.

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Do You Still Daydream?
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Do You Still Daydream?

I can be standing in the shower, sitting at my desk, staring at my garden, or lying awake in bed when my mind wanders…

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My Drawer of Unfinished Projects
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My Drawer of Unfinished Projects

The third drawer of my antique dresser houses my unfinished projects; some have lain tucked away for over twenty-five years…

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Moments of Joy III
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Moments of Joy III

These days, I experience moments of joy daily, even when I am lost in grief or despair. Some of you keep gratitude journals; I have often think about keeping a joy journal…

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Regrets, I've Had A Few...
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Regrets, I've Had A Few...

What comes to mind when you think of regrets, remorse, or guilt you are still carrying? What are you doing to ensure that you don’t become a woman who has regrets?

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Heart Dropping Moments This Week
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Heart Dropping Moments This Week

Throw an emergency my way, and I can assure you that you can count on me to remain calm and logical. However, a series of heart-dropping events?…

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All Mothers Need Support
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All Mothers Need Support

My oldest daughter and her family are moving to Vancouver Island this week. My 4-month old granddaughter will only be a Zoom visit away. But to actually snuggle her…

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Four Northern Lights For Older Women
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Four Northern Lights For Older Women

A friend asked me last week if people are treating me differently now that I am older. Yes, I responded, sometimes I feel like I am fading…

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Song is Everywhere
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Song is Everywhere

On Tuesday night, I stood on our island deck in complete darkness. I knew there was a sliver of moon behind the trees, and the sky was full of shimmering stars, yet I could not even make out the shape of the pond beyond the field…

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Family Treasures
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Family Treasures

I thought I'd skim through my copy of Wind of the Willows. I couldn't find it. I did, however, find a used copy online. There was only one little problem. It was $11,000!

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Celebrating 100 Blog Posts
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Celebrating 100 Blog Posts

Last week I shared my 100th blog with you! How do I celebrate this accomplishment? Well, I thought I would share 100 random things with you. Quotes, lessons…

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