There are two kinds of people - those who pack ten days before the trip and think through everything, and the ones who wake up the day of the trip and…
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What images and sights let you know you are home?
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Doing nothing is very hard to do…you never know when you are finished.
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What must I do to be at peace with myself so that I may live presently and die gracefully holding both at the same time?
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Predictably, as we grow older, we are more likely to walk hand-in-hand with grief. These past few weeks, I have connected with three friends and some family members, worried about parents, spouses, or children. Some are coping with their own health issues…
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Will your husband say he would rather you read: a cookbook, a diet book or a book to improve your vocabulary? Where, specifically, will your husband say is the one place in your house or apartment that you always forget to clean?
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I am excited and nervous as I start this new chapter. I expect that, like that little girl stepping off a plane in a new country all those years ago, it will not take long for me to feel settled in..
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Trees are imperfect and complicated and just like us, they can be laid bare by life’s storms…
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These days, Sunday mornings mean lingering in bed with a second cup of coffee, the love of my life by my side…
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A home is not simply a building; it is the shelter around the intimacy of a life.
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Do you feel old for your age? Young for your age? Just right?
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“My mother chewed parsley after meals. She loved to bathe in water scented with orange blossoms…”
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Friday morning. It is a glorious morning filled with potential, yet I have been sitting here for the last two hours, aimlessly browsing the internet and playing a few games of addiction solitaire…
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I’m eighty now and I live alone, a situation so common that you might even say loneliness goes hand in hand with being old, that the old are experts in loneliness.”…
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The analogy of a puzzle has been a constant in my life. Whenever I did not understand something or got mired down in research without reaching a conclusion, I would ask myself, what is that missing puzzle piece…
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You may think I am too focused on growing old as you read this. But no, it is only that I am keenly aware this week that I am paddling north…
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When we were young, we needed external validation. And hopefully, we got it. Along life’s journey, we turn to self-validation. But I think my ability to practice self-validation may have been stunted…
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Despair compresses you into a small space, and a depression is literally a hollow in the ground. To dig deeper into the self, to go underground, is sometimes necessary…
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Older women are forging the kind of partnerships they want because society now allows different types of relationships…
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He sleeps up next to me like he always does. Says it soothes his soul. But it’s my restlessness that gets calmed with his big old body next to mine.
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